Last Tuesday, 7/10/2018, I took a step out of my comfort zone and a leap of faith by going out on a date with a guy—to respect his and my own privacy, I will not be using his actual name but I will call him “James”—who reached out to me back in May via email then found me on Facebook/Messenger asking questions about Anubis and Kemeticism.
My mother had voiced her concerns about meeting some stranger that I only talked to on Facebook. As you ne’er know who you may meet. So I took her caution and kept it playing in my mind, but did not let worry hold me back.
James and I hit it off well on that date finding similarities other than worship of Anubis and practice of Kemeticism/Egyptian Paganism. As I was taking him back to his home, we stopped at a nearby gas station for some sodas, when went to leave my vehicle did not start up. If I had been alone I would have been absolutely scared, but after I called my folks for help, James sat with me till they got there. With him there, I felt safe.
The next day James asked me if it was too early to change one’s Facebook relationship status. At first I didn’t know how to respond or the modern social etiquette for such things, so I asked my coworkers how they would approach it. But the simplest thing was talking with James about it.
Saturday, I spontaneously asked if wanted to come up and see my home town, where I work, and meet some of my friends and family. So that’s what we did on Saturday. My family has told me that they haven’t see me smile as big as I do when I am with James.
Sunday, we went and saw Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom at the movie-theater-pub called Brewvies that he works at. James was so happy to show me where he works and to show me off to his coworkers that were on shift that evening.